Meet your therapist

Therapy is not about fixing you because you aren’t broken.

Its about helping you create a relationship with yourself that is healing and sustaining, for today and for tomorrow.

Sara Walter Shihdanian, she/they LMHC in Washington, LPC in Oregon

Prism Counseling for online trauma, gender, LGBTQ, and neurodiversity therapy.

Everyone has a story.

The challenge is knowing yours and then figuring out how to write it in a way that helps you get to where you want to go, instead of getting stuck in a story that keeps causing you pain. Sometimes even the smallest changes in the stories we tell ourselves have the power to reconfigure an entire lifetime.

Other times it can be just letting ourselves stay present with those stories until the intensity of the emotions starts to burn out, letting the emotions take their natural course of peaking and then passing on.

My perspective as your therapist, is that the important piece is figuring out what personal empowerment means to you, learning what stories, relationships, and things help keep you within arms reach of it, and then learning how to help you finally release the things that have been keeping you from it.

I know what’s like to take those first, scary, unpredictable steps. I know what it feels like to keep showing up and doing the work, especially on days when it feels like there’s nothing left in the tank.

While our experiences are different of course, my history with relational trauma, dysfunctional relationships, self doubt, and being a part of the LGBTQ+ community give me personal insight into what some of this might be like for you. This has also given me the chance to be a client struggling through those things.

Therapy during those times has given me the opportunity to have more support , to see myself in a new way, to let go of needing permission. I’ve also has some experiences with therapy that were just plain unhelpful too! But both sides of this help to inform how I approach you and my work.

Most importantly, this helps me to remain open to your feedback throughout our time together. That way our sessions can maintain uniquely tailored to what you need and it protects, and provides a structure for, the high level of quality and effectiveness that we both want for you in session.